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Behind Every Cloud is a Kindred Spirit (BECKS)I lost my grandfather when I was 17. I had a VERY difficult time getting over it. How could I still communicate with him? I loved him so much I didn't think I could live without him. I read everything I could get my hands on to do with the "afterlife" and that started it all...the love of Ghost Hunting and the Paranormal. I have been researching the paranormal for over 37 years!! It is my way of staying in touch with my grandfather. Being a Ghost Hunter is not always as exciting as it seems on TV. Many nights I have sat in the dark and not a thing happened. BUT it is those times you DO get that one voice, that one explainable picture or have an experience that sends chills down your back that makes it sooo worth it all!!! My purpose of this blog is not to make people believe in ghosts but maybe to open their minds just a little bit... I LOVE this crazy thing called Ghost Hunting. It is as much a part of me as breathing. I am just a girl that refuses to accept we can't still contact our loved ones after they die. My grandfather won't let me.



Ok.  I talked last week about Not being afraid of ghosts, BUT there are certain situations where I feel you need to have concern and a lot of it!  It is rare that you hear about people being "attacked" by ghosts but it DOES happen. As per my guest "J Lilly" who has experienced first hand!

Now, I am NOT going to spend a lot of time on this subject because here's what I think about this.....If you provoke a spirit or talk disrespectful to one.....you may GET more than you bargained for!!!  I don't want people talking to my loved ones disrespectful or rude in ANY WAY so WHY would I do that to someone else?????  I am not a believer in provoking spirits JUST so you can get some sort of response from them.  That is NOT my style of investigating!  And yes, I know several groups out there use this technique and especially on the Paranormal TV shows.  And you know......to each there own.  That is why we are all different.  I ALWAYS try to keep in mind that when I am doing an investigation the people I am trying to communicate with were ONCE living just like you and I........ and I wouldn't TALK to someone disrespectful now........ so WHY would I when they are dead?????

If this were a scientific experiment I feel the results would be labeled inconclusive. I for one approach every investigation with a healthy medium of skepticism, and am always eager to experience phenomena. Now that does not mean I try to be the entity's BFF (Best Friend Forever) but I do show empathy and respect, as I hope I do with any human being.

Provoking the entity into attacking the investigator, or at the least causing a raucous producing good footage for the camera recorder, or perhaps a good EVP is to say the least "dangerous" and in my books....to be frank.....just plain stupid.   However, one must weigh the options when one chooses this route, and while it may seem anecdotal that this produces results, it may not to the contrary.  Now, can a spirit hurt you WITHOUT being provoked?  The truth........YES.......but you can limit your chances for this kind of action if you do your RESEARCH and understand what you are up against BEFORE ever going into a location. Again, don't forget your protection prayer.

In folklore and paranormal studies, a poltergeist phenomenon alludes to the apparent yet unexplained manifestation of multiple force reactions caused by a seemingly invisible entity. Most accounts of poltergeist manifestations involve such force being triggered at objects, usually household (destruction and relocation of furniture, levitation of cutlery, knocking on the doors), although some seem to describe accompanying hallucinations, as well as physical attacks on human witnesses. Such actions can include pinching, biting, hitting and tripping the victim, or producing sentient noises (moaning, laughing, talking etc.) without clear source.

Final thought......(sorry, that sounded like Jerry Springer didn't it???LOL) Being a ghost hunter is exciting......and more likely than not...... you MAY get the answer your looking for,  but then the ANSWER suddenly becomes another QUESTION.....and you know what I'm talking about if you hunt ghosts........so while you guys are out there doing "your thing" be careful and respect the location and it's occupants.  Be cautious, and remember that ol' saying "you can get more flies with HONEY instead of VINEGAR. 

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