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DEMONS-ARE THEY REAL???

Have you ever felt something so frightful....so terrifying.....so evil..... that you can't catch your breath???  More than likely, this is YOUR six sense telling you something is just NOT right and you should seek protection as soon as possible.


Before I start this topic, let me say that I am uncomfortable even writing about it.  It is something that I feel should be talked about by someone with more experience in this field than me.  It's like being a Doctor.  There are many physicians around but inside that group of physicians you have ones that specialize in certain areas......general practice, gynecologist, dermatologist, orthopedic anyway you get the point. I think I fall in the "general practice" category.  LOL  But because I have been asked to write about Demons...I will attempt to do my best.

A demon or daemon is a paranormal, often malevolent being prevalent in religion, occultism, literature, fiction, and folklore.   A person considered extremely wicked, evil, or cruel.

Demons are to be considered extremely evil and extremely clever in the art of human persuasion.   This is why research and the history of a location is VERY important BEFORE doing an investigation.  You MUST know what you are going up against.  Sometimes, your spirit can be very friendly and then again....you have spirits that are very evil.  This is one reason that my style of investigating does NOT include "taunting" like Zak from Ghost Adventures(sorry Zak).  Again, spirits were at one time on this earth, living and breathing just like you and I, so treat them with respect.... just like I would hope we all do now.  I know my grandfather is on the Other Side and I don't want ANYONE talking to him that way or any of my family or friends that have pasted before me.

It is possible to believe in ghosts but not in demons, which are part of a spiritual hierarchy ranging from evil on one side to good on the other.  Sometimes powerful ghost can masquerade as a demon simply to heighten the fear factor and undermine the sanity of its victim.  Maybe it is trying to get you  to leave a location.....or flat doesn't like YOU! 

As I've mentioned before I am not a demonologist, nor do I want to be. Though the spirit world is highly intriguing and extremely rewarding at times, the side-effects of getting involved with spirits can be terrifying at their worst. I don't have a step-by-step guide to getting rid of demons but I do no that demons feed off negative energy just like good spirits feed off good energy.  So back to the demons... Demons feed off of negative energy, so if you get rid of the negative energy the demon has less power, less time in our plane, and thus less effect on people and things that exist in our plane. Understanding this is VITAL to keeping evil away.

Some people use rituals to cleanse people, places, or things that are believed to be cursed. An exorcism is commonly used.  AGAIN, seek professional guidance before you try any of these rituals.

So, I don't think I can say much more about demons....you guys already know that demons are evil and should be taken seriously.  PLEASE PLEASE don't try to deal with a spirit yourself if you believe it is demonic!!!!!  Seek professional help and pray.

 

POLTERGEISTS- SHOULD YOU BE SCARED????

When I hear the word "Poltergeists" a couple of things come to mind.  Of course, I think of evil, things moving, levitation's, demons, unusual electric behavior, Amityville Horror, the movie "Poltergeist" where the little girl says.......THEY'RE HERE......You know the one...:)


http://www.zimbio.com/watch/fn4qtPSITZT/Poltergeist/Beatrice+Straight

Poltergeist means "noisy ghost".  Parapsychologists explain poltergeist as a situation caused by the subconscious mind of a living agent, undergoing emotional and/or psychological stress.  Now to  me that suggest no "spirit" is involved in anyway.  But WE know better!  Sometimes it is hard to tell the difference between ghosts, apparitions and poltergeist.  On the surface, all three have the same appearance....strange noises, moving objects, and ghostly figures but if we look deeper we begin to unearth facts that show the differences becoming more and more pronounced.  The  poltergeist is a noisy, mischievous, destructive entity prone to acts of mindless violence.  Unlike a traditional ghost haunting that is associated with a particular place or event..... PEOPLE seem to attract poltergeist
activity. 

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=hUKZUSvrqgA

The current theory behind poltergeist activity is that the activity is caused by a person in the household, know as the "human agent".  This is usually a young, adolescent girl going through some troubled emotional time.  It is not known why this energy seems to appear to females around this age, but in documented cases, this seems to be the common factor.  But let me say, it can happen to anyone!

Ok...now that I got all the "informational" stuff out of the way, let me give you my personal opinion on poltergeists.  I do believe in the theory that poltergeist activity can be connected with one person that is manifesting through anger or emotional stress by the subconscious mind.  BUT........not ALWAYS do I believe this is the case.  Spirits of ALL kinds are present around us.  Poltergeist are the spirits that lets say.... just don't want to "play" with you.... they  DEMAND that you see them.....and if they need to move, throw things and even harm you then that's what they will do!!!  It's like being on a playground and you have kids that just want to play(ghost) and then you have a BULLY(poltergeist)that WILL get his way no matter what he has to do!

Ok.... I don't want to say I'm SCARED of poltergeist but......I'm SCARED of poltergeist!!! I have been in a lot of scary places and seen a lot of scary stuff and like to think I am not easily scared...but places that have reported evil, demons and poltergeist....I think you have to be EXPERIENCED with THOSE kind of spirits.  I try to protect myself and my team members so I choose NOT to investigate those kinds of places with such of activity.  Please be careful IF you do!!!  Make sure you understand how to protect yourself and handle the events associated with the haunting.  Now, give me.... mean, cranky, murdered, killed, ticked off (lol) spirits all day long..... I can handle them.....but demonic......NO THANKS!!! Think I'll pass. LOL What do think?  Ever experienced poltergeist activity?

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COOL HAUNTED PLACES II- MY FAVORITES

Hello hello hello.....I am sitting here trying to figure out what would be my favorite TOP THREE places I have actually visited or done an investigation on....hhhuummm MAN this is hard!!!  I have been so fortunate to have over the years, got to go to places and see things that I could only imagine I would get to see being your normal everyday Ghost Hunter.  But I am up for the challenge of picking my three favorite places.  So....here goes....

In 3rd place-DRY CREEK CEMETERY in Terrell, Tx-

Named for a nearby ravine, this burial ground originally served the community of Turner's Point. Located on the stage road between Shreveport, Louisiana, and Dallas, the settlement was established by Elisha Turner in 1845. In the 1870s the town was moved to a new location (1.5 miles southeast) and renamed Poetry. The earliest marked grave at this site is that of Samuel Key (1840-1871). Now closed for burials, the cemetery has 279 marked graves bearing names of the English, Scottish, Irish, and Welsh pioneer settlers of the area.

I read about this cemetery a couple of years ago and was so intrigued that I JUST had to pay a visit. This cemetery is located on the outskirts of Terrell. It is a long drive about 9 miles out to the country. It is nestled among some really old, really big trees. As SOON as you drive up you can tell this is going to be an AWESOME place for paranormal activity. Voices, orbs, lights, mist are all activity reported here.

A group of us went to check it out one weekend and we were NOT disappointed in the activity and experiences we had!!!  We sat up in the middle of the cemetery right in front of a giant old tree.  Don't worry, you won't miss the tree....it is GIANT!!!  You can tell it is the center stone of the cemetery. This cemetery is reported to have a portal in the far right corner.  Also, a spirit named Billy the Cowboy that is suppose to be a bit cantankerous has been reported seen here.  He was hung from a tree back in the 1800's  for a crime he did not commit.  I particularly wanted to speak with him.

We started our investigation by sitting in a group with a flashlight sitting in the middle of us.  We  had citronella candles sitting around us for light and also because it was a hot, summer night and the bugs were really bad!  I just snapped a couple of pics over my shoulders. You'll notice the time stamp on the two pics. The first one was over my left shoulder and the second one was over my right. What a difference?  It was by far the most active part of the cemetery.   I defiantly feel this is where the portal is.  It is NOT dust, nor had we been walking in that area to stir up dust. These two pics where taken back to back so if it had been pollen or something in the air...it would have been in all the pics. This is the only picture we have like this out of all we took. Not another photo looks like this.

What can I say about this place???  It is a GREAT place to go sit quietly, enjoy the sounds of hoot owls and frogs, look up in the sky and see beautiful bright stars....oh yeah....and say HI to Billy for me.  Don't miss this one.

Dry Creek Cemetery

The Portal on the right side of
the tree.

On the left side of the tree.

The second pic blown up in the portal.
  A strange orb that looks like two together shows up in several photos the same way. 

Is this Billy's grave?  I think so.

We offered Billy a cigarette and then we started
getting all kinds of communication.

 

Here is a link to part of our flashlight session.  No laughing........

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=HzWAJwwLBxg

2nd Place

OLD ALTON BRIDGE, Hickory Creek, TX-Old Alton Bridge (sometimes called Goatman's Bridge - see below) is a historic iron through-truss bridge connecting the cities of Denton, Texas and Copper Canyon, Texas. Built in 1884, by the King Iron Bridge Manufacturing Company, it originally carried horses and later automobiles over Hickory Creek at a location that once was a popular ford for crossing cattle. The bridge takes its name from the abandoned community of Alton, which between 1850-1856 was the seat of Denton County  .

Long story...short.....There was a black goat farmer named Oscar Washburn.  He started becoming well known around the community for selling goats.  Oscar put up a sign on the Old Alton Bridge that said "this way to goatman's".  This was back when the KKK was VERY present in Denton County.  They did not like that Oscar was becoming successful.  So one night they decided to wait for him on the bridge.  When Oscar came to the bridge to cross on his way home, the KKK grabbed him and hung him over the side of the bridge.  Later that night they came to check on Oscar and make sure he was dead.  They found nothing hanging over the side of the bridge but a noose.  No body....no Oscar.  This scared the KKK because they didn't want him to talk about what had happen to him so they went to his house.....only to find that Oscar wasn't their but his wife and children were.  The KKK drug his wife and children out of the house and  brutally murdered them.  I have spoken with Oscar several times and he is such a kind, sweet spirit.  But there is also a spirit I have talked to named Steve and he is a different story!  I believe he was the Grand Dragon of the KKK for the North Texas area.  He has no remorse for what he has done.

Below is a really cool video.  My investigation and evidence is soon to be aired on My Ghost Stories.  After it airs, I will be able to post my evidence for you guys.  And you guys will LOVE it!!!

I have had soooo many experiences here!!!  Some not so good!  I have awesome EVP's, pictures of dark shadows, orbs, balls moving on their own and this is the ONLY place that I have EVER been that I have actually been grabbed.  I believe Steve gabbed(not touched, but GRABBED) my leg while I was sitting in a chair telling him that I knew who he was and what he did!  It was VERY SCARY!!!

When I just need my "ghost fix" I just head out to Old Alton....because I know there.....someone ALWAYS wants to talk or be seen. 

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=WIrnzzTmP0s

Oscar Washburn

Old Alton Bridge

Orb at Old Alton

I normally wouldn't post pics of myself
or team members...but this was the filming for
the Bio Channel and I can say it was a
dream come true for me to have my work
recognized.

Children  answering us after I asked "does anyone want to play ball with me?"  saying "we want to play".

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=3_5Oe4at4og

After a VERY INTENSE EVP session with Steve.   He says "Becky". 

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=1g2F3AsDfOw


Ok........Are you ready????? Really ready????? My ALL TIME FAVORITE PLACE to go Ghost Hunting is........Salem, Mass!!!!  You got it!!! The witch capital of the world and the place where spirits rome freely among the living.  There is just soooo much to do in Salem that it would take me a week to tell all about them.  Salem is mostly known for the famous Witchcraft Trials in 1692.  From June through September of 1692, nineteen men and women, all having been convicted of witchcraft, were carted to Gallows Hill, a barren slope near Salem Village, for hanging. Another man of over eighty years was pressed to death under heavy stones for refusing to submit to a trial on witchcraft charges. Hundreds of others faced accusations of witchcraft. Dozens languished in jail for months without trials. Then, almost as soon as it had begun, the hysteria that swept through Puritan Massachusetts ended. 

So, because my post has been soooo long tonight I am just going to post a few of my favorite photos from Salem.  But let me say this......if you want CREEPY.....if you want SCARY......if you want stories after stories of hauntings.....and if you want to be guaranteed a GREAT time of Ghost Hunting....Salem, Massachusetts is the place for you!!!!

 

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NEW QUESTIONS POSTED UNDER QUESTIONS YOU ALWAYS WANTED TO KNOW BUT DIDN'T WANT TO ASK 5-2-13

I posted new questions over to the left under Questions you always wanted to know....  Hope you enjoy them.

I just wanted to take a minute to thank one of my followers who has shared a personal story with me about his brother who recently passed.  I take it to heart when someone confides in me on such a personal matter.  I hope my advice was both helpful and supportive for you and your family.  I hope you will be able to find the answers that allow you to continue the healing process.
Again, be careful in your investigation and I will be thinking about you and your family.

PHANTOM PLANES....HAUNTED SHIPS..... AND GHOSTLY LAND

When I think about ghost hunting...the first thing that comes to my mind is an old, creepy abandon house or a place where someone lived and died.  Well, there are soooo many things that have hauntings that sometimes I forget about the "not so common" places and things.

What about planes?  You have heard the stories about disappearing planes.  It is commonly theorized that some ghosts of people and animals are nothing more than residual energy, a non-reactive, pre-recorded event from the past that occasionally replays to witnesses much like a short movie scene.  We can therefore speculate that ghost planes, which are definitely not living, might also be a form of residual energy that is observed from time to time when the conditions are just right.

There aren't a lot of photos of ghostly planes.  This makes sense to me because this is just not something you can just look up and see.  Seeing something up in the air over 30,000ft might be a little difficult.  But there ARE plenty of people who have heard aircraft above, like propellers, pilots reporting radio signals of distress when there where no planes in sight or on radar, old planes being restored hearing voices and footsteps around the plane, planes that seem to appear then disappear and another common report is that parts that have been used from an aircraft from a crashed plane where there had been fatalities, all of the sudden on the new plane hear voices or feel like someone is watching them.

So, are there ghostly planes?  I certainly think there could be. Why not?  It seems that we are talking about something that is a little more difficult to investigate though.  Without a specific location you can drive or walk to, it's just a little harder to get evidence of it's existence.




From the air controllers tower

As seen on radar

 Taken out of the window of an airplane

Haunted ships.....what can I say.... but one of my favorite things to investigate.  There is just something about being on a ship that soldiers, passengers and crew lived for long periods at sea or even battled at sea...I love the feeling that they never really left the ship.

The USS Lexington-Since being commissioned in the year of 1943, this massive vessel has been called a number of things. The two most common names for the ship are “The Blue Ghost”,as well as “Lady Lex”. In today’s world, this haunted ship is docked and it serves as a museum for those that enjoy learning about history. In the world of yesterday, though, this mysterious water vessel served in twenty one battles out of twenty four in the Second World War. The Blue Ghost is said to be more than just a name issued based on the color, though. This particular ship is said to be an area that houses a number of spirits. Here, you will learn about one of the most haunted ships in the United States today, the USS Lexington in Corpus, Christi, Texas. 

Several residual hauntings are said to occur on the ship. Residual hauntings are like an energy, or a emotionally heightened time in a certain area. Many individuals claim that they hear voices, screams, and even cries. In some instances, people have indicated that they have heard noises that sound similar to distant weapons being fired while on board the USS Lexington.

I have been on this ship and loved it.  I posted a picture below, sorry it is not very good.  It was taken by my Mom a while ago and was not taken with a digital camera.  It had film that had to be developed in it.

Battleship Texas-  This ship finds its home in Houston, Tx.  I investigated this ship and got tons of orbs and what I believe is an Ecto mist.  For those who believe in the paranormal, the Battleship Texas has been one of their most sought-after sites for investigation. It is one of the state's leading historic attractions, a floating monument to those who fought and died in two World Wars.

The USS Lexington (photo taken by Lynnette Tolbert-my Mom)



Ecto Mist over a small cemetery in
front of the Battleship Texas

You may need to blow this picture up to see the orb in it.
I love this picture because it just is cool to catch an orb in the daytime.

The Battleship Texas


 

Cool Orb on Battleship Texas

And the last ship I investigated The Queen Mary.  It has been said that The Queen Mary is one of the most haunted ships in the world!!!  In particular, Cabin B340.  Alleged it is haunted by the spirit of a

person who was murdered there,(we found that room 340B was locked and the number was actually removed from the wall....hhhuummm so unless you know about the story of this room there was know way to identify that it was room 340B) and people have reported hearing sounds of children playing in the nursery. Other reported ghosts include a young sailor who was accidentally killed in the ship's engine room, crew members of the Curacoa who were killed when Queen Mary collided with her, and an unidentified "lady in white". And the most famous story is that of a little girl named "Jackie" that drowned in the pool on The Queen Mary.

 

If you get the chance to go stay on The Queen May, don't pass it up!! It is beautiful!!!!!

 

The Queen Mary

Inside this beautiful ship

We weren't the only Passengers...

The Swimming Pool where Jackie drown



The Pool area

 



And last what about Haunted Property/Land-  Battlefields, sites of plane crashes, locations of deadly accidents, property that has been handed down for generations, burial sites, etc.  Do these places "hang on" to spirits?  Do they have some kind of energy field that holds souls? Tragic places just tend to hold spirits.  Ghosts are people who, after their death, choose not to cross over to the Other Side, for various reasons. Sometimes they''ve died a tragic death and they don''t recognize that they''re dead. Other times they''re trying to work out unfinished business and on occasion they''re afraid they''ll experience judgment and punishment if they cross over - so they don''t. Unfortunately there are many ill-effects of this short-sighted decision.  

The Battle at Gettysburg is one of the most haunted battlefields.  The sounds of gunfire and the smell of smoke and gunpowder are just some of the strange happenings there. People have also seen strange blue lights, where many soldiers died.

The small town of Gettysburgg, gained tragic notoriety in July 1863 for the cataclysmic Civil War battle in which fifty thousand men died. There were more casualties during these three days than in any American battle before or since – a full third of those who fought were killed or wounded – and entire regiments were wiped out when the tide finally turned against the South.

Four months later, on November 19, Abraham Lincoln delivered his Gettysburg Address at the dedication of the National Cemetery. His two-minute speech, in memory of all the soldiers who died, is acknowledged as one of the most powerful orations in American history. 

I have not yet got to investigate a battlefield but hope to get to go to Gettysburg sometime soon. 
 

 

GHOST AND ORBS......OH NO!!!!

So I thought I would just share with you some really cool pics that I ran across going through some old pictures.  The first two are one of my VERY FIRST photos of "faces" that I got.  This is at the McPike Mansion in Alton, Ill.  This place is supposedly very haunted.  Unfortunately, I was not able to go in this house because it is abandoned and no trespassing signs are posted everywhere. 

I was on my way back to the airport(after an American Ghost Society Conference) and was talking with the taxi driver.  I was telling him I was there for the Ghost Conference but was disappointed that I was unable to go to the McPike Mansion.  He said, "I know where that is, I can take you there".  So, like any good ghost hunter would do...I said "TURN THIS CAR AROUND AND LETS GO!". After a quick turn around, he took me to the mansion.  He pulled in the driveway and said, "well, this is it.  You can get out if you want to, but I'm not getting out of this cab because of all the stories I've heard  about this place".  Even though there were NO TRESPASSING signs posted everywhere, again like any good ghost hunter would do.....I jumped right out and and walked up to the mansion and started talking pictures. 

The first picture is the original and the second is it blown up. I believe it is a picture of a little girl and a woman standing behind her.  There are reported several family deaths and family suicides in this home...so what do think.....could it be.......

The next set of pictures are at the Old Alton Bridge in Hickory Creek, Tx.  This is the bridge that will be shown on a upcoming episode of My Ghost Stories on the Bio Channel.  I went to LA for filming and as soon as it airs I will post the evidence(And it's awesome!!!) that they used in the show.  I am not allowed to post it until after it airs.

But to be honest, these where taken years ago, so long ago,  that I don't remember taking them at all!!!  So it was really fun going back over these.  In the first one, it looks to me like a figure of a man.  I can't say for sure because it was so long ago I don't know what or who was there.  But it does look interesting.  And the others, I though were just cool orb pictures.

WAS THAT A SIGN FROM THE BEYOND OR WAS I JUST SEEING THINGS???

Now, you may be asking yourself what is the difference between "receiving a sign" and last weeks topic of  "contacting a spirit"?  Isn't it the same? NO. In my opinion, not at all.

When YOU are asking for a sign FROM a spirit it is about YOU and what you want.  When a spirit is GIVING YOU a message, it is about THEM and what THEY want you to know.  I know sometimes, the loss is so great that we automatically want a sign from our loved ones.  So, we start ASKING for signs, but here's the deal....It's not always up to YOU on WHEN you get a message from a spirit.  In other words, your loved one has to FEEL that you ARE ready.  If not, receiving a message could create a greater longing or deeper depression on your side.  I'm going to put like this (in Becky Terms)..... you are driving in your car.......and you are in a hurry......you come to a cross roads and a traffic cops gives you the signal to stop........you really don't want to stop or slow down because you are running late.....but you do anyway.(because that's what all good drivers do, right?  No defensive driving courses for us. LOL)  It seems like you are WAITING AND WAITING  forever for the cop to give you the go-ahead to continue.  And what is HE doing....he sees you.... BUT he doesn't let you go through because of other cars crossing the intersection(your not ready)....so he is protecting you from harm that could cause you pain and suffering if you were to cross to early. Right?  He is waiting until HE thinks it is safe for YOU to cross.  Then he motions for you to come on through, and you proceed safety.  Because YOU waited for HIM to give YOU a sign, you are able to continue FORWARD without any accidents. He kept you safe.  Ok.  Did that make ANY sense to you? LOL.  The point is......You have to be in a really good place in your heart and open to receiving a sign or message from a spirit and SOMETIMES not always, the spirit will KNOW when you are ready.... not you.

While nearly everything that the spirits do for us is done anonymously, without our ever even realizing that we've had their help (sometimes they do want us to know though). Because most of us are focused on what is right in front of us,today, right now, we just aren't used to thinking about the spirit world, so to be honest, I don't think the spirits have an easy job getting our attention.   In addition to any task or conversation we may be presently absorbed in physically, we're also usually occupied mentally with our thoughts running back and forth over the things we've done and things we need to do.  What options does a spirit have to get our attention?

Well, mainly, they tend to do pretty obvious things, sometime not so subtle.  They make loud noises, turn lights off and on, maybe turn water on in the sink, knock things over, tilt pictures at an angle, and sometimes send them flying through the air.  On occasion, they even touch us.

But each of us has another way that we most commonly get their messages, and that's our intuition.  That's when we get a "hunch" or we say, "I just had a feeling" or "Something just told me..."  Sometimes we get a feeling of anxiety, and it could be a warning, telling us to be careful or not to do something that could result in our getting hurt or even killed.  How often have you heard someone say, "I don't know....it was just a feeling that something wasn't right"....and lets just say....when they went outside something had happened to their spouse, family or friends....but because they came out just in time, it saved their lives.  Those are signs, maybe not as obvious as loud noises, etc but still signs.

Occasionally, you still may receive a clear and direct communication when you are in a relaxed, sub or semi-consicious state, or even a dream ( My favorite).  Sometimes, not always, it can be a message of extreme importance.  Many times, people question "was that just a dream or did I really see them"?  YES you did.  What is the difference between a "dream" and a "visit"?  A dream is usually long, rambling, convoluted, scenes change often, have people in them you don't even know, and don't make sense...you feel a sense of nothing when awakening.  A visit will usually be brief and to the point.  Sometimes, a spirit may speak without a single a word - all the meaning is conveyed just by their presence.  You may awaken feeling grateful, happy, sometimes even sad...but you feel like you have just spoken face to face with the person.

Obviously we don't have to be asleep to get a message from a spirit.....where there's a will...there's a way.  Spirits contact us through what we call "synchronicity"  that is arranging certain happenings or meetings in such a way that we see it as an AMAZING coincidence.  Maybe you see your Moms favorite flower on her birthday, maybe you find a long lost wallet of your husbands on your anniversary, maybe you find your "soul mate"(yes, you can have more than one) in such a way that normally your paths would have NEVER crossed.....like two people that leave in different cities, but SOMEWAY their paths cross and it's love at first sight!!!  Coincidence or help from beyond??? You tell me....

Everyone has spirits around them to help them and comfort them.  Everyone has a choice.....you can believe or not believe......you can choose whether or not you want to look into your spiritual connections....ask for signs because you aren't afraid.... and are open to embrace them.  Synchronicities (happenings) are NOT coincidental.  Be delighted when you see these things.....smile....embrace them.....believe them.  Trust that you know the difference between coincidental and help from the Other Side.

It's so simple.  People are always looking for more complicated signs, like whats in the movies.  That's NOT where you should be looking.  It's not impossible, but it's pretty rare that there will be a BIG DRAMATIC show.  However, the LITTLE signs, the tiny little signs that are happening all the time around us...... that keeps us on the RIGHT track and moving FORWARD are the ones you notice the most!!!  Signs are signs....whether big or small......I believe we ALL have help from the Other Side.... we just have to SEE IT and BELIEVE IT!!!