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Behind Every Cloud is a Kindred Spirit (BECKS)I lost my grandfather when I was 17. I had a VERY difficult time getting over it. How could I still communicate with him? I loved him so much I didn't think I could live without him. I read everything I could get my hands on to do with the "afterlife" and that started it all...the love of Ghost Hunting and the Paranormal. I have been researching the paranormal for over 37 years!! It is my way of staying in touch with my grandfather. Being a Ghost Hunter is not always as exciting as it seems on TV. Many nights I have sat in the dark and not a thing happened. BUT it is those times you DO get that one voice, that one explainable picture or have an experience that sends chills down your back that makes it sooo worth it all!!! My purpose of this blog is not to make people believe in ghosts but maybe to open their minds just a little bit... I LOVE this crazy thing called Ghost Hunting. It is as much a part of me as breathing. I am just a girl that refuses to accept we can't still contact our loved ones after they die. My grandfather won't let me.



Not one word!!!  Doesn't EVERYONE
look like this when they are ghost hunting??? LOL

There are NO such things as ghosts.  That is just a speck of dust.  That is just fog.  That is just the lighting. Oh, that was someone in the background.  No, I don't hear a voice, just a lot of noise.

Yep.  I've heard it....... you've heard it.  Non-believers, skeptics.  They are out there and they are not going away.  So, what do we do?  We learn to live with them.(no pun intended).

Here's the thing....we are never going to be accepted into the scientific world as SOLID proof of the paranormal because in THEIR world they can re-create things over and over again, the same way, every time, the same time, every time, the same environment every time.(that's a lot of "every time's" isn't it. lol)  That is how they are able to say it "has been scientifically proven" because it happens the same way EVERY TIME over and over again to give them the same conclusion.  Example...every time they used the same glass and poured water over the ice, it would melt.  Conclusion....ice melts when you pour water over it.  I don't know about you.......but that's pretty much how it is for me when I go ghost hunting.  Every time I go out to a haunted house....I sit down, set up my equipment, grab a cold drink and say "Ok now I'm ready.  Come on down and show yourself".  And could you hurry up, I want to catch Dancing with the Stars tonight.  LOL  NOT!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! 

For us, unfortunately, we just can't get spirits to come and go on command.  I have spent countless nights.......sitting......and waiting.......for something to happen and it never does.  You know exactly what I am talking about.  Sometimes we see things....and sometimes we don't.  Whether we can prove it or not, we are always going to have people that are NOT going to believe in life after death...... no matter what evidence we present to them.

For me, I do it(research the paranormal)because I LOVE IT!!!!!!!  I am ALWAYS going to be looking for ways to communicate with my Nan(grandfather).  For those of you who are new to my blog, Nan is my grandfather and you will see me refer to him often because he IS the reason I even got started in this crazy world of the paranormal.  Anyway, searching for answers.....searching for the paranormal and proof there is life after death runs so deep in my soul, I couldn't stop even if I wanted to........my Nan won't let me.  :)

So, I DO NOT try to convince people of the paranormal or ghosts and the whole after life.  My solution to that is......COME WITH ME.  Make your OWN conclusions based on what YOU see and hear.  No tricks.....just come with me.  I do not get offended or upset if someone doesn't believe....I just smile......and say ok.  That's all.  I do not feel the need to get into a debate with someone on this subject, because no matter what.....I KNOW WHAT I SEE........I KNOW WHAT I HEAR.....I KNOW WHAT I FEEL.......and I KNOW WHAT I BELIEVE.  You know, some people like chocolate ice cream and some people like vanilla.  Why debate when BOTH are good.

So, let skeptics be skeptics.............and we will continue to do what we do best.................BELIEVE!!!



Anonymous said...

Nan won't let you give up because he knows it will result in a meeting between the two of you during one of your investigations.

Becky said...

aaaawww Thank you and I think you are right. I hope to meet up with him again someday. I have been through some struggles in my life and researching the paranormal has ALWAYS gotten me through. It gave a me a focus on something other than my current problems when I needed it to. I think my Nan left this physical world so that I would get involved in the paranormal and because he knew I was going to NEED him in a different way other than the physical. So, now he is my guardian angel and my guiding light. Thank you for your comment. Becky