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Behind Every Cloud is a Kindred Spirit (BECKS)I lost my grandfather when I was 17. I had a VERY difficult time getting over it. How could I still communicate with him? I loved him so much I didn't think I could live without him. I read everything I could get my hands on to do with the "afterlife" and that started it all...the love of Ghost Hunting and the Paranormal. I have been researching the paranormal for over 37 years!! It is my way of staying in touch with my grandfather. Being a Ghost Hunter is not always as exciting as it seems on TV. Many nights I have sat in the dark and not a thing happened. BUT it is those times you DO get that one voice, that one explainable picture or have an experience that sends chills down your back that makes it sooo worth it all!!! My purpose of this blog is not to make people believe in ghosts but maybe to open their minds just a little bit... I LOVE this crazy thing called Ghost Hunting. It is as much a part of me as breathing. I am just a girl that refuses to accept we can't still contact our loved ones after they die. My grandfather won't let me.



One of the things I hear people say when they are out on an investigation or tour with me is "I don't know how to talk to ghosts.  I don't know what to say."  Then the next thing I hear is "you do it"!  Ok.  First let me say, I totally understand that it is weird or makes you feel a "little crazy" talking out loud to someone you can not see or hear.  But I assure, you are NOT ALONE. (and I mean that in more than ONE way. LOL) 

I don't mind AT ALL when people ask me to do the talking.  See, when you have been talking to the dead for 30 plus years.....it's no big deal.  LOL  But for someone just starting out.....it is!!! So here are some easy questions just to get you going and we've all heard them on TV but some of the questions have to be asked over and over to get the answers we are looking for.  I know they sound repetitive, because they are......but each location is different so at each location it's kinda like starting over again.
1.  Does anyone want to talk with me?
2.  How old are you?
3.  What happened to you?
4.  Are there more than one spirits here?
5.  Can you show yourself?
6.  Are you a male or female?
7.  Are you a child?
8.  If you were killed by someone else, do you know who that person is?
9.  What year did you die?
10.  Do you know the current year now?

That is just a few simple questions you can ask to try and put together a profile of the spirit or spirits you are communicating with.  And listen....don't be afraid to ask any questions.  Anything you want to know....just ask. :)

On my last tour, one of the guest on the tour was my niece, CaLisa and she ask me a really good question....."Aunt Becky(because I'm Aunt Becky to her...not crazy ghost lady.LOL) What if you are wanting  to talk to a particular spirit?  How can you know if that particular spirit can hear you and someone else doesn't come through?  Good question CaLisa!!!  One thing I will CAUTION you about.....if you go into a location and say " Is ANYONE here who wants to talk to me(question #1 above)..... be sure that you are willing to talk to ANYONE that will come through.  Here's the problem with that.  ANYONE could mean, lets say the victim or the KILLER!!!  I try to do my research on a location first, because I want to KNOW the spirits I am talking to.  But back to CaLisa's question.  Here's how I tired to explain it to her...  Let's say Calisa.......you and I went to a concert and the band was playing really loud.....I am on one side of the stage and you are on another.  (just like spirits are on ONE SIDE and WE ARE on another).  I see YOU on the other side and I want to get just YOUR attention....so I start yelling(now I don't mean start YELLING for spirits...literally. LOL) I start yelling CALISA.....CALISA....trying to get JUST your attention....but in the process other people turn around when they hear me.  But I keep yelling CALISA in hopes I will get your attention.   Finally...you hear me and come over.   Same thing with spirits.  If you want to talk to a particular spirit, call for them and THEM only.  Now, that's not to say you may not get a couple of spirits that want to "but in" but after a bit the spirit you are trying to communicate with should come through for you.

So don't be afraid to give it a try.  They(spirit's) don't care what your asking them, their just glad your talking to them. :)  One more thing.......DON'T forget your protection prayers before and after trying to communicate with a spirit.  This is a VERY important detail!!!  Now, get out there......and ask your questions!!!!

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