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Behind Every Cloud is a Kindred Spirit (BECKS)I lost my grandfather when I was 17. I had a VERY difficult time getting over it. How could I still communicate with him? I loved him so much I didn't think I could live without him. I read everything I could get my hands on to do with the "afterlife" and that started it all...the love of Ghost Hunting and the Paranormal. I have been researching the paranormal for over 37 years!! It is my way of staying in touch with my grandfather. Being a Ghost Hunter is not always as exciting as it seems on TV. Many nights I have sat in the dark and not a thing happened. BUT it is those times you DO get that one voice, that one explainable picture or have an experience that sends chills down your back that makes it sooo worth it all!!! My purpose of this blog is not to make people believe in ghosts but maybe to open their minds just a little bit... I LOVE this crazy thing called Ghost Hunting. It is as much a part of me as breathing. I am just a girl that refuses to accept we can't still contact our loved ones after they die. My grandfather won't let me.



Many times people don't know if they are dealing with something that is truly Demonic or maybe just a "cranky" spirit. When you are dealing with something TRULY EVIL OR DEMONIC things like possession can happen or things suddenly start to be dark, negative and there rarely seems to be a "good day" when your home is haunted by something bad!  The BEST thing you can do is be positive!!!  Check out the article below about staying positive.

And listen....you guys stay turned!!!  We re-visited the very haunted YORKTOWN MEMORIAL HOSPITAL and it did not disappoint!!!!  Can't wait to share the evidence with you...:)

Are Demons Actually Real?
In our culture, as children we have been taught that demons, ghosts, and imaginary friends, are just that - imaginary. They are like Santa and the Easter Bunny... fake. And any kid who sees them frequently is told they need to be realistic, to stop playing games, and that they are being weird or mentally ill.
But are all these children really perceiving "imaginary" beings? Or are they real?
Children are, by and large, far more naturally psychically sensitive than are adults. This is because social programming has not yet crushed their psychic abilities.
In a way, to avoid being weird and by attempting to fit in, children 'wish away' their psychic abilities. This demonstrates the power of intention and affirmations, and how they can affect the development, or suppression, of psychic abilities.
While materialistic adults generally appreciate self-defense and the ability to protect one's own family and property, they usually have absolutely no concept of subtle dimensions.
They do not know anything about the dangers of negative spirit entities.
In today's modern world, it's just as bad. Evil spirits are never discussed in public and are rarely even written about.
If there are real spiritual problems, then someone has to deal with them eventually. Like termites, they won't just go away if you ignore them. Or even if you yell at them.
Here are some do's and don'ts about negative entities:
You won't get far as a spiritual person if you don't accept the reality of the astral planes, and subtle energies.

Acknowledge The Existence Of Astral Beings

You won't get very far as a psychic or spiritual practitioner if you don't accept the reality of the "other side" and the existence of other dimensions. In order to make progress you need to open up to the existence of energies of all polarities.
Just as there are angels, there are demons. Just as there are good spirits, there are bad spirits. Everything has its opposite number.
And just like Earth, which is a planet on the physical plane, other dimensions have creatures and beings. Some are beautiful and helpful, and some are ugly and dangerous.
By knowing this, you can TAKE PRECAUTIONS against them, and give yourself some peace of mind.

Protect Yourself From These Harmful Beings

All the worlds and dimensions of existence are not necessarily full of "love and light" as the NewAge fluffs will tell you. It's simply not true.
There are some legitimate threats to your safety and wellbeing present on subtle dimensional levels close to the Earth plane.
Most people do not have many recognizable problems with the other side, but when they do...what can they do about it? As said, most people disbelieve in such things. And there is very little realistic 'help' available in this arena today.
But you must know that as you live your life here in the physical, there are also negative forces and beings that prey off fear, anxiety, and other negative types of energy.

Don't Give Permission For Possession

A little-known fact is that for actual possession to occur, the victim needs to give permission on some level to the demon to enter and influence their body and mind.
A possession is the action of a negative entity taking some degree of control over a person's mind and physical body from the inside.

Do Keep Your Mind, Body, And Space Clean

The interior of your house, bedroom, and personal space could be a major attraction to a negative entity, or it could be a major turnoff. For example, if you keep a happy, clean, uplifting environment, with fresh flowers, fresh clothes and sunshine, then your space will be filled with positive spirits and energies. There is no chance that a toxic negative entity will be attracted to your space.
On the other hand, if your space is dark, dank, dirty, and depressing, then negative entities will LOVE it.

Being a positive and happy upbeat person - even though it may not always be easy - is the most powerful NATURAL way to defend yourself and ward off negative entities.
If you focus on negative energies in a fearful way, you will feed them. This will make matters worse, because here you are actually empowering negative entities that might be around you. This will allow them to become more active and troublesome.
The reverse applies. Ignore them, refuse to fear, and keep your energy integrity, and you will not feed them. You will starve them. And then things will get better.

A popular saying today is 'What you resist, persists' (Carl Jung). This maxim has been taken way out of context today...when applied to negative entities and energies. This is used today as a 'big' excuse not to do anything, or to even talk about it, when something goes spiritually wrong.
Blindly following this maxim is like ignoring termites in your house because you are afraid they'll get angry with you. But if you ignore termites, you house will fall down around your ears. Resisting termites and taking sensible actions...like calling in pest control and doing repairs, are just common sense!


Unknown said...

I agree with you 100%. It makes total sense that dark negative energy would thrive on dark negative surroundings. Once again Becky you have done a fantastic job this week.

Becky said...

Thank you Joe. I appreciate your comment.