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- Becky
- Behind Every Cloud is a Kindred Spirit (BECKS)I lost my grandfather when I was 17. I had a VERY difficult time getting over it. How could I still communicate with him? I loved him so much I didn't think I could live without him. I read everything I could get my hands on to do with the "afterlife" and that started it all...the love of Ghost Hunting and the Paranormal. I have been researching the paranormal for over 37 years!! It is my way of staying in touch with my grandfather. Being a Ghost Hunter is not always as exciting as it seems on TV. Many nights I have sat in the dark and not a thing happened. BUT it is those times you DO get that one voice, that one explainable picture or have an experience that sends chills down your back that makes it sooo worth it all!!! My purpose of this blog is not to make people believe in ghosts but maybe to open their minds just a little bit... I LOVE this crazy thing called Ghost Hunting. It is as much a part of me as breathing. I am just a girl that refuses to accept we can't still contact our loved ones after they die. My grandfather won't let me.
1/09/2023
Van's World Podcast-Goatman's Bridge
7/21/2022
Everyone has abilities. What side of Spirituality do you fall on? Are you a Receiver or an Inviter?
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Some people want NO PART OF IT! Let's be real. Seeing dead people is not everyone's cup of tea. But let me say this to you, if you are starting to "notice" you are seeing things and that others aren't, you are here by no accident. Something or someone brought you to this page. You need a message yourself and maybe some clarity.
Let's talk about two different kinds of abilities. You are either a RECEIVER or an INVITER. What the hell is a RECEIVER AND AN INVITER you ask? Well, I am about to tell you. And hopefully, I can clear up some of your confusing thoughts when it comes to "messages" or "images" you may be receiving and experiencing and not know why.
What is a RECEIVER? A Receiver is a someone that does NOT ASK for a "message" from the other side. It just happens. With or without your permission or intent. A Receiver does not get a choice on WHEN or WHERE they receive a message or visit from the other side. You may have no say in the matter whatsoever. Sometimes, this can be a gift and sometimes a curse. It's all about how you perceive it. The spirits will come to you. Usually, not in the obvious ways of trying to communicate with the other side such as Ouija boards, séance's or other direct methods we think of when trying to communicate with the dead.
What is an INVITER? An Inviter are more than likely, a medium. A medium is someone who ASK to speak to a particular spirit that is not living. This type of channeling sometimes includes, using Ouija boards, séance tables and sometimes allowing the spirits to inhibit the mediums body and use their voice to relay a message. You are inviting the spirits to communicate with you, and a Receiver is not.
Think of it this way. You are a beacon of light in a dark room. When you are a Receiver, everyone in that dark room will gravitate towards you and you will not be able to pick and choose who you want to talk to. But, when you are an Inviter, you are the beacon of light, with your very own spotlight that you can shine on one particular spirit to communicate with.
Sometimes, I think being an Inviter is a little better than being a Receiver because then you have a choice of when and where you communicate with spirits. Not, just all the sudden a dead person shows up next to you at the movies!
Here is an example of a Receiver's abilities. This is a true story about me. I was at a conference this summer and we were on a ghost hunt in an old abandon hotel. I was with a bunch of ladies I did not know. We were trying to communicate with the spirit of a little girl that had supposedly drown down in the pool area. All of the sudden I started seeing this man. WTH? Why was I seeing him? It was obvious to me that know one else was noticing him. Do I say something? I am looking around and totally confused. Wait! We were asking to talk with the spirit of a little girl, not a grown man.
All of the sudden, I see him walk over behind a lady I had never met before and stand behind her and put his hands on her shoulders. He was tall, blonde hair, button-down shirt, and jeans. He was smiling and told me to tell her to "follow your heart". So, that's what I did. I looked at her and said, "I'm sorry, but did you lose someone in your family that would be tall and have blonde hair"? She said, "yes". And then I heard him say, almost in a regretful way, "I killed myself". I DID NOT want to say that out loud, because the lady I was speaking to was almost "dismissive" of what I was saying to her anyway. And the one thing I DID NOT WANT TO DO is continue with what I am perceiving is a message from one loved one to another, by overstepping my boundaries if the living person was not ready to receive the message. Then she starts to say, "Yes. My brother. He overdosed". And then continues to tell us that she had not spoken of him in a long, long time, until today when she, and I believe she said, her sister were talking about him in the car on the way up.
Then I said, "he said to make SURE I tell you, to follow your heart". Then I asked, "does this have any meaning to you at all"? and she said, "No". I asked again, "Are you sure?" And again, she responses, "No". So, I am saying back to him, (telepathically) "she doesn't know what you are talking about"! Then he says, "No. Ask her about her job"! And this time he said it with conviction! Like I am not leaving here until she gets my message. "She will know what I mean if you ask her about her job". So, as badly as I hated to, I turned around again, and said, "I'm sorry, are you considering a job change"? This time she looked at me a little confused and said, "Yes". And I said, "That is the message. Follow your heart and not the money". I asked again, "Do you understand this message"? And this time she said, "Yes". I just said "Good" and tried to just leave it at that. I didn't want to pressure her anymore. And "he" was so cute, and just waved and said, "Bye ladies, I'm out"! And just like that he was gone.
Now, did I ask for him to come give his sister a message? No. Did I ask her if I could try and communicate with her brother? No. It just happened. This is what it is like being a Receiver. You never know when or where a spirit will reach out to you.
So, either way. Whether you invest and grow your gift or you choose to disconnect from it, just know that you are either going to be the person in that dark room that is the beacon of light for others, or the person in that dark room holding the spotlight. It may not be easy to decide what to do next, but I hope this helped you understand just a little more about how the spirits see you as on the other side.
And, by the way, the lady that had received a message from her brother, texted me a few days later and thanked me for the message. She said she had never really believed in "that sort of thing" but she knew exactly what the message was about, as she was not only making a career choice, but considering making some life choices as well. This lady will make the right decision. Don't ask me how I know, but I do. And good for her. Nothing makes me feel better than to give a message to someone, that sometimes, doesn't even know they need it.
2/04/2022
CAN YOU SEE GHOSTS AND SPIRITS IN THE DAYLIGHT?
1/30/2019
THE LUXOR IN LAS VEGAS IS HAUNTED!!! WHAT HAPPENED TO ME TO MAKE ME A BELIEVER!!!
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The Luxor in Las Vegas |
I recently took my Mom and daughter to Vegas for a much needed "girls trip". My Mom had not been there in years and I wanted to take her somewhere fun. So I booked us a room at the Luxor. Now, you know me....I'm going to check it out to see if there is anything haunted associated with the hotel and guess what...... there was!!! But here's the deal. I couldn't tell my Mom and daughter because I didn't want them to freak out! LOL
First, let me tell you about some of the reported deaths and hauntings connected to the Luxor. And let me tell you.....there is quite the list!!!!
At 30 stories high there is no other hotel in Las Vegas that stands out quite like the Luxor. Shaped like a pyramid with the strongest beam of light in the world peering out of the top. This Egyptian style themed hotel is stunning from the inside as you can see straight up to the top of the pyramid just about from every location due to the shape.
During the construction of the Luxor it was reported that two construction workers died. And many local suggest as many as seven workers perished during the building of the Luxor. The treacherous construction process is the most dangerous of all the hotels in Vegas. Many visitors have reported seeing the fallen workers roaming the Luxor.
In September 1996, just a few years after the Luxor’s opening, a woman jumped from the 26th story of the hotel, falling to her death. Immediately, the woman died from severe head injuries. Per Clark County’s Sgt. Bill Keeton: “it was over very quickly.” Her injuries were so severe that she could not be readily identified, and she carried no identification on her. The woman landed by the old buffet’s entrance, which shortly after her death was completely, thoroughly cleared out and converted into a food court.
There was also another incident where a man fell to his death from the 10th floor.
In May 2007, in the Luxor parking garage, a coffee cup was left atop the car of a 24-year-old Luxor food court employee. When the employee went to remove the cup, the cup exploded. A homemade explosive device was inside the cup. The employee died from shrapnel inside the bomb.
In 2012, an airman from Nellis Air Force Base got into a fight with a colleague in the first-floor lobby of the Luxor’s west tower. The colleague pushed the airman against an elevator door, which then inexplicably opened—despite no elevator compartment being present. The airman fell 25 feet down the empty shaft to the basement level. He was taken to the hospital in critical condition. Later it was reported that he died of his injuries.
Many feel the Luxor is cursed. Where the Luxor now sits was once the site of a popular burial ground for mobsters’ victims, as it was, at the time, off the beaten path. As is common knowledge, a property built atop a graveyard never has good fortunes.
Ok...…… now here is our experience at the Luxor. First we were on the 28th floor(Room 28017 I think?) which there is only the penthouses above us. It's a little creepy in the elevators because it takes so long and they are very wobbly because of the angle they are going up. I'm not going to lie, the elevators were scary!!! You just thought the cable would snap at any minute!!! By the way, we were NOT the only guests that felt this way.
Anyway, on our last day, we were walking around the Luxor and I casually said, "Well I guess I can tell ya'll now....we are staying at a haunted hotel". My daughter Lindsey just STOPS DEAD IN HER TRACKS and yells "I KNEW IT!!!!!!!!!!!" I just started laughing and said, "See you would have never known if I hadn't told you. Nothing happened". She said, OH NO something DID happen!!!!!!!! The other night when we were asleep I heard someone walking around and going through our suitcases!!!!! I said "Oh Lins….you DID not". She got very serious and said, YES I DID and it was LOUD!!!!!!!! So loud and plan I was so terrified I couldn't move or open my eyes!!! Because I knew we were sleeping together and Nana (my Mom) was in the other bed. MOM IT WAS BAD!!!!!!!! So, here's were it gets good. My Mom can't hear anything!!! You have to yell at her for her to be able to hear you and she jumped in and said "I HEARD IT TO"!!!!!
So, let me lay out the room for you. We had double beds and my daughter and I were sharing a bed so my Mom could have her own. We all three had one big suitcase apiece. So we just laid them on the floor side by side against the wall. To give us more room. Lindsey said she could hear someone moving the cloths around and walking to the next suitcase. My Mom then says, "Yeah, I didn't even open my eyes because I thought one of you must have gotten up and was looking for something in the suitcases. It was very loud."
OK.....Ya'll. I thought it might be Lindsey's imagination but when MY MOM said she heard the same thing and SHE can't hear......well I found it pretty cool!!!! :) My daughters swears SOMEONE was in our ROOM!!!! She said she thought we were going to die because she was to scared to open her eyes and couldn't scream for help. LOL. I am still recovering from a ruptured Achilles so I had taken something for pain that helped me sleep. So maybe that is why I did not hear anything.
Was this someone who had committed suicide here? Or was it one of the workers that was killed during construction? I do know that one of the suicides took place on the 26th floor just below us. Whatever IT was...…..it scared my daughter to death!!!!!!!
So, if you are headed to Vegas, and want a little ghostly action or a break from the slots, ask for room 28017 and go to bed early. Oh...and leave your suitcase open. :)
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1/09/2019
GHOST HUNTING IN CEMETERIES - GREAT PLACE OR NOT???
Going to a cemetery? Count me IN!!!! A bunch of dead people and caskets! YESSSSSSSSSSS!!!!!
Man, I do love me some haunted cemeteries!!! Many people will argue that a cemetery IS NOT a great place to go ghost hunting. That the spirit of the body buried in the ground is more than likely at a location if there is to be a haunting. I beg to differ.
Some of the best EVP's and photos I have ever gotten have been in a cemetery. You've heard of attachments? Spirits that attach themselves to an object like a favorite chair or toy, right? Then why would they not want to attach to the one thing that truly represents them? There outer shell....the physical body.
Many times when you investigate a location you one of the things you look for is places with "Great emotion". Well...….hello......what a better place than a cemetery to have a ton of true emotions! Think about it. Some people are sad, because their loved one is gone, some maybe happy because their loved ones are in a "better place", some maybe confused because they don't fully understand the loss of their loved ones and some maybe angry, angry that they are left alone. All that emotion in one place...You betcha ya I'm in!!!!
It's like a party for the dead! I have actually gotten EVP's in a cemetery that sounded like two spirits interacting with each other. And if you have captured that then you know it is soooo exciting an amazing to witness. Another time, up in Alton, Illinois some friends of mine and I went to check out one of the local cemeteries. We started seeing dark shadows dart from tombstone to another. We were all seeing them! We started walking through the cemetery and one of guys stepped on a grave (which we always try and walk around instead over just walking over the graves) and just a natural response said, "Oh, I'm so sorry about that" and we all heard at the same time a soft woman's voice say, "That's ok". Even better, we caught it on our recorder as plain as day! A class A EVP!!!
Many times if you just sit still and look around you will be able to see the dark shadows. The shadows are darker than the dark. And if you are lucky enough, you may even be able to capture one in one of your pictures. If you do go to a cemetery, this is a great place for trigger objects. Bring a toy to a child's grave or choose a coin with and older date that matches someones death year.
Lane Cemetery
I definitely think a cemetery is an awesome place for ghost hunting. But please be respectful when you do investigate.
12/12/2018
GOATMAN'S BRIDGE-DO YOU DARE? AND GET READY, THERE'S A BOOK ABOUT IT!!!!
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huuummm Just thinking back to the filming of Ghost Adventures...….
WOW!!! What a surprise to get a call from the Ghost Adventures producer to feature me on a 2-hour Halloween Special!!! What???? How did that happen??? Did they call the right number? However it did....YES!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Just one little bit of information to pass along with you guys....something happened during filming to one of the crew members that was very serious and now I understand she has quit because of what happened to her out at the bridge. Stay tuned for that because they DO SHOW this on the Special.
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Belynda and Aaron |
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