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Behind Every Cloud is a Kindred Spirit (BECKS)I lost my grandfather when I was 17. I had a VERY difficult time getting over it. How could I still communicate with him? I loved him so much I didn't think I could live without him. I read everything I could get my hands on to do with the "afterlife" and that started it all...the love of Ghost Hunting and the Paranormal. I have been researching the paranormal for over 37 years!! It is my way of staying in touch with my grandfather. Being a Ghost Hunter is not always as exciting as it seems on TV. Many nights I have sat in the dark and not a thing happened. BUT it is those times you DO get that one voice, that one explainable picture or have an experience that sends chills down your back that makes it sooo worth it all!!! My purpose of this blog is not to make people believe in ghosts but maybe to open their minds just a little bit... I LOVE this crazy thing called Ghost Hunting. It is as much a part of me as breathing. I am just a girl that refuses to accept we can't still contact our loved ones after they die. My grandfather won't let me.




Hellooooo Everyone!!!  Man I missed you guys! Has it only been a week??? Seems like WEEKS!!! haha  I have soooo much to tell you but today I am going to stick to my regular topic schedule, but just let me say, that Deak and I just got back from Atlanta and had the most AMAZING time at an old cemetery there!  I hope to post some of our evidence later this week so watch for it, I think you will definitely enjoy it!!!

Ok...enough of that....down to business.  Well, ghost hunters look for the dead and Psychic's talk to them so it would suggest a "good working" relationship, right?  Well, I have the utmost respect for Psychic or Mediums.  They are able to communicate with the dead in a way that "us, the average Joe" can't.  They are in tuned with the universe in such a way that spirits are able to show themselves(maybe in not the way we remember them) through signs and visions.  But be aware, as much as I respect their field, just like in ours in Ghost Hunting there are those who have no intent of helping people or researching and understanding our field.  Frauds, be careful they are out there.

I do not have a Psychic or a Medium in our group, but think it would be an asset to.  I have interviewed people that say they are "psychics".  I just have never found one that I feel 100% positive about.  Now, that doesn't mean you can't.  Just do your RESEARCH just like you would if you were investigating....ask questions, LOTS of questions, get refinances from others(if you know them personally or someone you trust has suggested them) and if you are still on the fence, invite them along on an investigation and see how they fit in with your group and get your groups "feelings" and feedback about them.  If you currently or have had in the past a Psychic or Medium in your group I would love to hear the Pros and Cons of having them in your group. 

Now, one thing I want to say really quickly is, once you have decided that you have found a Psychic or Medium that you feel good about, be careful of another pit fall when you are taking them along on an investigation.  BECAUSE they DO add so much additional insight and bring something unique to the group, don't fall into the trap of letting them be the FOCUS of the investigation.  Here's what I mean by that.....sometimes you start to FULLY RELYon the Psychic or Mediums communication before you do anything else on your own.  I believe we all have a 6th Sense but we have to develop it just like anything we do.....basically.....practice.  Don't start to rely so much on the Psychic or Medium that you don't allow you and other team members to develop their OWN 6th Sense.....you
 know.....LEARNING to FEEL what is around them in the dark......Sense that something isn't right......or having the hair on the back of your neck stand up.  These are ALL very important when ghost hunting.  Give them the time they need to develop THEIR OWN internal psychic abilities so to speak".  Does that make sense? 

I want to share two people that I feel are true BLESSINGS in the Psychic world (and there are many more!) and you will probably know both......YES....Theresa Caputo, AKA Long Island Medium.  I have seen her twice now and believe in her ability to communicate with our loved ones.  She offers amazing messages to people that REALLY need them!  I know, not everyone is going to agree with me, and that's ok.  I love you anyway. LOL  And the other is Ronald Reeder AKA The Working Man's Medium.  Ron is a good friend of mine that has a world wide audience and every Sunday night you can be a part of his live on-air event.  Check his website for details.  I have spoken with Ron many times and he has a true compassion for the people and the spirits he communicates with.  I hope someday to do a joint event with him.  Check BOTH of these great Mediums out.


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